transforming or conforming. This is why you should have a personal compass to keep yourself in line with who you really are. The way we commune with others is how change happens in us and them. If you are having the same experience your entire life, learn to activate different parts of your brain to…

us a million moments to change. Choose one. Have to go through the dump to see the blessings and then choose to pursue them and grow. Change breeds change. Change people. Change environment. Change mindset. Remove the blinders. Face your truth. Otherwise it’s all just fantasy and a constant longing for what is real, while…

at 6:06, thank you… Korn, F.O.A.L.

because I don’t give up on myself or my dreams. It still happens, those serendipitous little reminders that I’m cool beans to something greater than me, just because and just for me. Sometimes back to back, multiple times a day to remind me of the beauty from every experience. Up another step closer to destiny.…

It’s hard to leave you alone….” That’s what I was told today when I said that certain people should have just left me alone. I think it’s supposed to be a compliment but, for me, it’s not an excuse I accept b/c it is always clear, at the beginning, I am not a plaything. I…

When you drive 5 hours to get tipsy and enjoy living… On the way I listened to about 200 songs trying to find one that accurately conveyed where I am in life right now. And it came right as I reached my destination…

to anything good in life. Some of us don’t care the cost because it’s reciprocal, others do. Stay away from the others… Something may seem to be a poor money decision but a fantastic social and emotional one that will have lifelong returns. Hug, love and keep close the ones who get it and think…

Have less we are more reckless with what we have. People and possessions. Why is that? As we become more successful the desire for admiration and validation falls off and we no longer need that. Ask yourself why and how flipping this can change your life? The opportunities are there with less and more. Also,…

Again, today, I was told to do this when I shared my perspective on something. All my life I’ve been telling myself or others have been telling me to do this. Some with empty flattery and a few with genuine sincerity. This one I count as sincere, a member of a special group whom I’ve…

of what they may find when they analyze themselves deeply. But you have to crawl into your wounds to discover your true fears and true whys. Once your bleeding starts, your cleansing begins. Fear not my friend. -Inspired by a T. Amos quote.